Hi, I'm Debbie.

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I want you to know something before we go any further.

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Whatever you're carrying, whatever you've done or not done, whatever you've said or left unsaid, whatever lives in the parts of yourself you haven't shown anyone yet, you are welcome here exactly as you are. No editing required.

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I've been doing this work long enough to have heard a full range of what humans carry inside themselves. And what I know with complete certainty is that our shadows are almost never as bad as we believe them to be. We are not broken. We are shaped. Shaped by experiences, by the people who raised us, by the things that happened before we were old enough to have any say in them, and by the silent conclusions we drew about ourselves from all of it.

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I don't believe there is anything wrong with you. I never have.

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I've been through a lot in my own life. Grief, loss, the kind of inner work that asks you to look at things you'd rather leave undisturbed. And what I've come to understand through all of it is that there is always, always a place for love and hope. Always. Even when it doesn't feel that way from where you're standing right now.

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That's not something I say because it sounds good. It's something I know because I've lived it, and because I've sat with women who were certain their situation was the exception, and watched them find their way back to themselves anyway.

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So if you've found your way here, something in you already knows there might be more available than what you're currently experiencing. You don't have to have it figured out. You don't have to know what you need or how to ask for it.

 

You just have to be willing to have a conversation.

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I'm a soft place to land. That's the truest thing I can tell you about myself.

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If something here feels like it might be for you, I'd love to hear from you.​​